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             Islamic Parenting and Disciplining

We want our children to grow up to be the leaders of tomorrow.  But more importantly, we want to give them what it takes to hold on to their religion and die pleasing Allah.  Giving them love, understanding, attention, and patience are critical aspects of disciplining our children to achieve this goal.  There are numerous examples from Quran and hadith that illustrate how we can raise our children without hitting, shouting or shaming. You will find some of those examples on this page, throughout this website, and in Grandma Jeddah’s e-Books and resources, insha’Allah. Please click here for more parenting tips for Muslim mothers.

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 How to Discipline Children the Islamic Way Please Click Here for how to discipline children Islamic way

How to Get Your Child up for Fajr Please Click Here for salat help

How to Manage Your Toddlers Tantrums Please Click Here for controlling tantrums

How to Potty train without Hitting, Shouting, or Losing Control Please Click Here for potty training help

How to Get Your Child to Do His Homework Please Click Here for homework help




Grandma Jeddah's Media Articles

New 3/2013 Effective Islamic Parenting 6 Tips to Discipline More Effectively Please Click Here for disciplining more effectively 

 Effective Islamic Parenting 6 Ways to Parent with Less Hassle Please Click Here for parenting with less hassle

 Muslim 5 Tips to Spending Productie Time with Your Kids Please Click Here for spending time with kids

In the Pursuit of Writing 10 Steps to Parenting Improvement Please Click Here for improving your parenting methods

Grow Mama Grow Handling Children with Disabilities  Please Click Here handling children with disabilities



Grandma Jeddah's Tips 

 How to Deal with Your Child Who is Stealing?
 By: Grandma Jeddah

 Here are 4 valuable tips when finding out that your child aged 6 to 12 is stealing money from you.

1^st, don’t react with extreme measures.  Stay calm and think of penalties that are reasonable not extremely harsh.  Even though stealing is a disgraceful act, we must remember that our children are still in training and will make mistakes—as we did when we were young.

2^nd Avoid asking your child did he steal.  He’ll most likely say no and then get in trouble for lying as well.  Simply let him know that you know he has taken money from your purse, wallet etc.

3^rd Avoid labeling your child a thief or liar. You want your child to see himself as a good person.  If he perceives himself as “bad” he may choose to live up to his reputation. 

4^th, Try to find out why your son is stealing and what he is using the money for.  Knowing why your son is stealing will help you determine how to handle the problem more appropriately, Insha’Allah. Please Click Here to Read More



How to Tell Your Child "No"
By: Grandma Jeddah
No one likes to hear “no.” We all like to have our way and do as we wish. But of course life isn’t always that sweet. When possible, give your child an affirmative answer to her requests. Many times “No” is the easiest answer, not the best or only answer. Can I do my homework later?  If it’s a Friday and there’s no school tomorrow, why not let your child 
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How to Be Patient When Disciplining Your Child
By: Grandma Jeddah
We all have our moments.  You finally get a chance to go to the bathroom and no sooner do you close the door than you hear a little fist pounding on the bathroom door, "I have to use it." 
You remind your "strong-willed" 12-year-old to put away his basket of clothes.  "I'm not doing it," he responds.
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How to Improve Discipline with Your Teenager
By: Grandma Jeddah 
Our religion doesn’t’ condone drugs, alcohol and illicit sex but that doesn’t mean our kids won’t be tempted to experiment with these immoralities.  Our reminders and close relationship can help prevent this type of experimentation and  
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How to Use "Ignoring" as an Effective Discipline Method 
By: Grandma Jeddah

Your kids are running though the house like chimpanzees.  They sense your change in mood. They’re less responsive to your requests because they know they have a good chance of getting away with not responding. How do you discipline your kids when
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How to Discipline Your Child with ADHD
By: Grandma Jeddah
Do you know this child?  He runs, jumps and shouts wherever he goes?  You tell him what to do-- but both ears must be clogged with wax.  When you finally get him to hear you, he behaves as though it’s opposite day.  When he’s around his peers, you hear continuous complaints about him hitting, teasing or constantly
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How to Get Your 10-Year-Old up for Fajr--without Hitting
By: Grandama Jeddah
Parents sometimes have a difficult time getting their older children up for Fajr. Some scholars suggest using hitting as a last rather than first resort for children aged 10 and older. Here are some alternative methods to hitting when trying to encourage your child to wake up for Fajr. The first thing to remember is that developing a good habit
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How to Get Your Child to Do His Homework
By: Grandma Jeddah
A common problem parents have with their school-age children If you’re having this problem, one of the first things you want to do is rule out if your child has a learning disability. Some kids don’t want to do their homework because they are having difficulty understanding it and need special 
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How to Potty Train Your Toddler without Hitting 
By: Grandma Jeddah
Potty training can be a challenging part of raising a toddler. The good news is that with a little patience, time and a few special tricks your son or daughter will soon be able to use the potty on his or him own. Believe it or not, 2 - 2 ½ years of age is a good time to begin potty training. Many mothers are eager to potty
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How to Tame a Tantrum
By: Grandma Jeddah

Feel like throwing a tantrum when your child throws one?  Well, there's an easier way to handle his “extreme moments” without you stomping on the floor, too.  The first thing you want to do is make sure your child’s true needs are met.  If he’s hungry feed him.  If he’s sleepy, help him get some rest by rocking him gently, reading him a book or doing what
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How to Handle a Toddler who Says "No"
By: Grandma Jeddah
You pushed him out, nursed him, gave him all your love and just the other day you told your 3-year-old to put his plate away and he had the audacity to tell you, "No!"   Well, don’t take it too personal. What you’re experiencing with your child is a normal stage children go through around his age. About age two, kids have a tendency to want to exert their independence. Saying, "no" is one way of  
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